The reason for love is love. As logical as this sounds sometimes we tend to forget it. So when you want to be more successful, when you want to become more loved, the challenge is really that you’re facing is to become more lovable first. So it’s really up to you because if we live without love, life isn’t worth living really. Imagine one of your friends who has a bad experience and a hard time finding real love. I know many of my good friends; male and female who are adorable people. They have the perfect body, they have a great career. They have a great life, a great standard quality of life. They can do whatever they want and still there’s something missing within them. And sometimes they’ll realize it and sometimes they don’t realize it immediately but they will find out in the long run.
The amount of love you can handle is very individual, subjectively different. Some people are surrendered with love. Some people are surrounded and totally live love to a degree that love is melted into every word they say, into every action they take and to every thought they think. Some people, not so much. It depends on where you are in your karmic, soulistic situation and station and life is really about love. So if you love life, then you better love love too because wherever we put our energy in, energy will come out. It’s actio equals reactio that’s a physical fact that happens all the time. If we want it or not. Actio equals reactio. So if we push somewhere, the other thing pulls back or eventually breaks but the amount of energy is always the same. Wherever we put energy in, energy comes back to us. Energy finds us. And karma gets us every time whether you believe in karma or you don’t, karma gets us every time. Whether you believe it or not, it’s there. So actio equals reactio. Same thing applies with energy. Same thing applies with love because energy is love, love is energy.
Think about that in your love relationships, in your social life, in your family life; how much love do you want to be in your life? If you feel lonely sometimes, if you feel there’s something missing, if you feel that there could be more love, if you miss a feeling, probably it’s love. And how do you claim love? You have got to give love first. You have got to give love first. And who do you give love first most importantly? To yourself. If you are able to love yourself deeply, openly and without any restrictions and self-judgments. If you are openly loving what you are, who you are, why you are, what you see when you look in the mirror, then love is really already in your life. This is half the rent. Love yourself first. It’s a little bit like in the airplane. If you fly then… the announcement is always; in case of an emergency, please makes sure you are safe first then help other guests. In life it’s a little bit similar. Try to love yourself first. Learn to love yourself first, openly from a deep, open, and honest heart.
So when you want to become lovable, what are the steps to take? Number 1, please don’t judge anyone including yourself. That’s sounds easy but that is a big thing. That is a game changer for most I talk about this. This is a huge, huge, huge thing. Don’t judge anybody including yourself. Do it for 3 days first then do it for 7 days. Then pours into it for another 7 days and if you fail, if you have one bad thought. One critical judgmental thought about you or somebody else during that time, start over. Start over. Be strict with you. You have got to be able to be non-judgmental for at least 3 days then repeat it for 7 days, then repeat for another 7 days and then go for 30 days and then once you have mastered 30 days, it’s very probable that you can do 90 days and you can implement it into your life and watch what happens. Magic will pop into your life. Doors will open. People will show up in your life, energy will be released like you’ve never seen before. Like you’ve never dared to hope for. Like you’ve never been able to dream about. It will be wonderful.
So love is what the goal is. And if you want to be fulfilled in life. If you want to be successful and fulfilled, and this is the challenge, give more love to people. Say thank you more often, say you’re welcome more often and mean it. Whenever you say you’re welcome, smile, show your open hands, show an open heart and have that glimpse in your eyes, say you’re welcome and mean it. Say thank you. Say I love you more often, say I appreciate you, I am glad that we met in this life. Say I’m super excited that you are my friend, that you are my lover, that you are my spouse, that you are my child, that you are my father, mother, grandfather. Whatever it is, try it. It is so good for you. If you want to be more loved, you must become more lovable first so try to be the first… try to be the most lovable person in each room that you enter. Try to be the sunshine that enters, try to be the light that enters the room no matter what the quality of that room is like at this given moment. That is not about to judge. That is not about us to judge it. It is really important that we don’t judge and that we bring our love, our open mind, our openly meant love to the table here. This is really, really, really crucial for us to do.
So please, please don’t love only on Valentine’s Day. Please love every moment of your life. Learn to appreciate more, learn to express your love more, tell people you love them. And it is not a shameful thing to do that. It is something that will get you very far and you will love this once you fully understand the concept. So love more. Do more loving. Become more lovable and things will become amazing in your life. Even more amazing that you ever dreamt about yet.
So same applies to projects. To jobs. Love what you do or don’t do it. That sounds easier than it is, I know and bills have to be paid etcetera, PP but why would you spend your life with something that does not fulfill you, that does not make you fully happy. Your life is not long enough to experiment with it. Your life is not long enough to wait for the perfect day to come. Your life is not a rehearsal. Your life is live. Now is your time, now is your moment. 99% of people die in regret that they haven’t lived more openly, and more fully when they die. So you don’t want to experience that ever. Live openly, love openly. Become the most lovable you you can be. Become the best you you can achieve and can imagine, can visualize and can finally shape and then you will see what happens with your life. Everything falls lovably in place. If you want to be loved, become lovable first. That’s an old rule.
Decide to be the change today. Right in this very moment. It is not as difficult as you think once you are ready enough to decide it because who would decide it if not you. This is your life. You will see your life the way it is. Things happen in your life because you asked for them if you know or if you don’t know and if we did it with the help of the law of attraction or you did it subconsciously. Whatever we claim in our life happens so our life is our life. And we live in this life now if we know it or we don’t know it, it’s a fact. So I invite you to the idea to really become more open lovingly and try to not be too critical because karma hears and sees you even though what you don’t think that you think. Even what you whisper to yourself sometimes and don’t even know that you think it, karma hears you so be careful what you think.
Love more, love more, love more. I love you talk to you very soon.